thank you! thats the whole point really
take stock of what you’ve done so far and what you’ve gone through. the ups and downs, your favorite memories and the hardest times. if you’re unhappy because of bad things that are going on right now, look towards the light because hard times pass and pain gets easier to deal with.
if there’s nothing particularly wrong but you just feel like your life is empty and has no meaning, try to do some things you would normally be afraid to try (anything you want: sing, travel, ask someone out). if you are seriously unhappy, you have nothing to lose and if you fail/mess up, you’ll gain some interesting experiences and stories out of it.
remember there are millions of people who feel the same and may be going through similar circumstances. always look towards the positive, never have regrets and don’t let petty things like money get in the way of your happiness
if she’s older you have to be really nice to her, usually girls only date younger people cuz they want someone whose more sensitive and willing to devote a lot of attention to them, but don’t be clingy. If you’re the older one, you should definitely still be really nice, don’t rush things because you could scare her off. in either case, pay attention to her and smile and make eye contact. see how she reacts to that and then if she seems to be reciprocating, you should be straightforward and ask her out. just make sure she’s not dating you because you’re the “cooler older person”
Here are my tips to becoming tumblr famous super fast:
blog about what you care about then people who share the same interests will follow, also share the love by reblogging and liking other people’s posts
hope this helps! xx